This blog contains jaw dropping material . . .
teeth grinding, hair pulling, it's 5 o'clock somewhere content.
Reader discretion is advised.
My goal by writing this is to,
A. Attempt to relieve my own stress, and
B. Let other parents know that if you are dealing with hard times with your kids that you are not alone.
A. Attempt to relieve my own stress, and
B. Let other parents know that if you are dealing with hard times with your kids that you are not alone.
For the first time ever, both of my kids were faced with
consequences that they did not like due to their actions. Don't get me wrong, they've certainly dealt
with consequences in the past due to misbehaving, they've just never dealt with
so many all at once.
This morning's adventure out led to coming home early and the kids spending 45 minutes in their rooms. This
was followed by no iPad, and no TV for the rest of the day. Just so we are all clear, I don't plop my
kids in front of the TV, or let them play Candy Crush all day. They are allowed
a little time each day to watch a favorite show, or play an educational game. That's why these times are a big deal. Some may think that a 45 minute time out in a room for an almost two and a
three year old seems like a long time, but seriously, that's how long it took my
husband and I to recover from this adventure out.
The morning started off fine. They slept well, (for them) and ate a good
breakfast. My husband and I decided to
run an errand at Target to get some things we needed for our upcoming birthday
party for Charlotte. Oh yes, terrible
two's! I remember them well since it seems
like just yesterday that Lanie was two.
As we parked the car, the usual fuss about riding in the
shopping cart started. This is not a
huge deal for me. Both of them are typically good when it comes to holding your
hand, and with my husband being there it usually makes shopping with them a
little easier. It leaves me a free hand to work with. I mean how hard can it be to pick up a card
and a stupid paper tablecloth for a birthday party? I said it before and I'll say it again . . . shopping with your kids is NEVER easy. As a matter of fact, I've decided I'm not
doing it again until my kids are 12 and 13. I figure in about 10 years or so,
it may be a little more manageable. Most
likely by then I'll be dealing with a new set of challenges, and I'll have
forgotten about all the tantrums they pull now.
When we got in the store my husband went off with my
youngest, while Lanie and I searched for the perfect birthday card. That 25 second search turned into my oldest
ripping cards off the shelf and throwing them on the floor. When I got down at
her level and told her to pick up the cards she lost it saying, "NO, don't you tell me to pick them
up. I'm not doing it." Really?! I sense a massive meltdown coming because that crap does not fly well with
me. "Lanie, I'm going to ask you
again nicely to pick up the cards. Someone worked really hard to put all these
cards on the shelves. We need to put them back where they belong." Her response, "NO!" Really?! (a WTF moment). "Lanie, if you don't pick up the cards, I will bring
you out to the car." Not only did
I get a big fat "NO", I also got a slap in my leg. You bet that shit didn't fly well. My husband saw this and instantly scooped her up,
kicking and screaming and brought her out to the car. One down.
Now I'm left with Charlotte and I'm thinking that I'll get my items
and get out of there quick. Nope, not
the case. Another meltdown, or more like
five meltdowns. One in the toy isle that
she ran to, one in the clothing department, one by the hair accessory shelf,
one at the checkout, and the massive one as I struggled to carry her out of the
store kicking and screaming all while attempting to maneuver the shopping cart
that she refused to sit in. I could
sense lots of onlookers staring, and I was so embarrassed that I could not make
eye contact with anyone . . . until I had to. A woman in a caravan pulled up
beside me and said "Hang in there. You're doing a good job." A
big shout out to that woman. Thank you! At that
point I desperately needed a kind vibe.
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